Rihanna may be good at dishing out the sex advice, but when it comes to dating, it seems the 'We Found Love' singer needs help finding love herself! In an interview with Ellen on 'The Ellen DeGeneres Show,' set to air Monday (Nov. 21), Ri admits to currently being single -- and not exactly loving it.

"I'm not dating anyone right now," Rihanna told the talk show host. "I'm not dating at all."

Between her Loud tour and the release of her new CD, 'Talk That Talk,' next week, Rihanna claims to be too busy for a boyfriend (sorry Drake). And although Ri knows she's better off alone right now, living with that harsh reality isn't easy. "I'm not necessarily happy being single," reveals Ri. "It's not really that cool."

When Rihanna does feel ready to have a new guy in her life, what exactly is she looking for? "I like men that are more aggressive, but mysterious, but I like a man to be very sure," she told Ellen. "I like them to be sure of themselves and know that you're the man. I'm the lady and the only way for us to make this work is for us to play our roles. You know, I can't really be the man for you. I don't want to have to be. I'm the man at work all the time."

For a single girl, Ri sure does know how to sing about love. The diva blew audiences away when she appeared this week on 'The X Factor.' With performances like that, we're sure Rihanna is wracking up more than a few guys who would love to date her.

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